Sweet Adversity

There is nothing like a little adversity in your life to help you stop and figure out the hows and whys. And to help you figure out who your real friends are in this world. Mr & I are both experiencing that very phenomenon as we speak. Unfortunately Mr, like me, tends to learn his lessons the hard way. Telling him that psycho bullshit people can't be trusted doesn't tend to leave an impression. However taking a fall for one does. His ramifications will be enormous. Livelihood, shelter, family....most likely all of it will be impacted. I suppose there is alot of truth to that woman scorned saying. Wanna know who to stay away from in this life? She's on his blog, because she can't help but make a fool of herself over and over again. Check it out.
And me, well....it's me and the family duking it out now. No more secrets, that's for sure. The Brother and I are working together, of course...at least for now. I'm sure it will get ugly really soon. The worst part is I understand his concerns. The bad part is that you can't always help life's circumstances, or who you fall in love with. It's also my opinion that Mr deserves one person in his life that he can trust wholeheartedly, that has his best interests close to her heart. Mr knows where he can place his faith and trust. It's where it's always been. Even though our relationship has been rocky, through his shenanigans, my loyalty hasn't faltered. I would never set him up to fall, hoping that he would lose everything. At my worst moment, I walked away, wishing him well. I suppose you can't hope that everyone in the world could have that kind of class. The Brother, at least on that point, wholeheartedly agrees.
So I guess we'll weather this latest crisis, like we always do.....
But I'm praying this time, because we need all the help we can get.
PS - To the psycho bullshit person: I heard you wanted an apology because you think I am mean. Here it is - I'm sorry. Sorry that you are so pathetic, sorry that you stoop so low in your life, and sorry that you are so spineless. Grow a backbone, and get some class.
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